Enjoy this superb, thought-provoking and informative cherryred guest blog post by the unstoppable fetish star, pro Domme and sex educator deMandie Rae, who is currently shooting sizzling spank action films for Punished Brats. I think this guest post is one of the best explanations of the spanking fetish that I’ve read in a long time….think you’ll agree.
Written by deMandie Rae
5 Reasons Spanking Turns Me On!
While spanking is one of my more lighthearted fetishes, it is also one of my favorites. One of the questions I get asked the most is why I love spanking so much. I suppose it is time to reveal what exactly it is about getting spanked that does it for me.
1. Giving up control: My everyday life is filled with responsibilities, like most people. I have a very demanding schedule that often consumes my days. I don’t have a lot of down time and frequently find myself being in the position of control freak. This is not my preferred head space.
While I am very good at running shit, it is nice to be able to give the reins over to someone else. Receiving a spanking allows me to do this. For the duration of the spanking, I have no control. The person doling out the smacks to my ass makes all of the decisions.
They decide what type of spanking it will be: harsh, sensual, disciplinary etc. They decide how hard the spanking is and in a way, they have control over my reactions. They decide when I’ve had enough (unless I use my safeword of course). It feels good to know that sometimes things are out of my hands and I don’t run everything…I forget that on occasion.
2. It’s embarrassing: Getting a spanking always make me feel like I am a little kid again. As my clothes come off, my panties are taken down, and I am bent over, it is as though my status as “adult” has been stripped away. I am unable to keep my composure…I squeak, squeal, beg, and sometimes I cry.
I typically feel some amount of shame thinking about how I ended up in this position. Speaking of positions, those can be horribly humiliating as well: being placed over someones lap with your legs dangling, bent over the desk like a naughty school girl, or having your legs up and pushed back, placing all of your parts on display.
And I don’t have any real explanation for why experiencing such humiliation does it for me, but it does.
3. It can be erotic: No two ways about it, spanking allows for physical intimacy and vulnerability. On top of the physical closeness and touch, a persons butt is an erogenous zone.
That sweet spot, you know the one, is tender and when hit in just the right way makes me gush. The vibrations caused from a good ass spanking make all my intimate parts tingle.
4. It clears my head: When I am on the receiving end of a spanking, my mind is capable of having very few thoughts once I’ve entered the proper head space.
I seem to only be focused on the sensation be it pain or otherwise, how I ended up here, and when the next spank is coming. There are not too many other points during life where I am able to let go to that extent.
5. It can be cathartic & therapeutic: When I am capable of clearing my head, I am also capable of releasing pent up emotions. I become so engrossed in everything going on around me, sometimes I forget to actually feel things.
When you are being spanked, you are uhm… definitely feeling. Spanking can release tension and this allows me to cry. I am a big fan of tears.
Vulnerability is sexy and I find nothing more vulnerable than a pile of pretty girl mush, tears and a very red ass.